Hardworking Coaches
August 19
As another season of summer sports ends and a busy fall/winter season gets ready to begin, I cannot help but send a letter as a reminder to all parents and families about the role your coaches play in your sporting seasons.
Coaching your child is a privilege that many coaches take on for the love of the sport, to give back to the community, to spend time with their children or out of necessity as “no one else stepped up.” Coaches spend hundreds of hours coaching, planning, organizing and thinking about their craft. Whether it is arranging for snacks at a U4 soccer practice or attending multiple certification courses for an U18AAA team, the hours and time spent are immense but well worth it.
As a coach, I am well aware that you all care and love your children immensely. Sports are expensive and you are paying and committing time to allow your child to be the best that they can be while having fun. With that being said, over a season some of you will feel that your coach may not always do what is best for your child and that is your right.
Coaching is incredibly complex with many factors coming into every decision that is made. (Who attends practice, who listens, who is disrespectful to teammates and coaches, skill level, the game situation, providing an opportunity for a child and the team to be successful and so on.)
During the year, we as coaches will make mistakes (managing playing time, the team tryout selection process, navigating player’s emotions and so on) but please note that those decisions are made based on hundreds of factors that often are not observed in just the games that a parent watches. Those decisions are made for what we feel is best for a collective group, not just your child. I ask you to please be respectful of these volunteers over the coming months. Teaching your child to talk to the coach about their concerns rather than berating or confronting a coach with your concerns is probably one of the greatest lessons that sports can teach your child.
More and more coaches are leaving sport and I can attest that it is in no way related to dealing with the athletes. If you cannot be respectful of the coach then I look forward to seeing a clipboard in your hands next season.
“Coach” Chris Zarski,
Camrose
As another season of summer sports ends and a busy fall/winter season gets ready to begin, I cannot help but send a letter as a reminder to all parents and families about the role your coaches play in your sporting seasons.
Coaching your child is a privilege that many coaches take on for the love of the sport, to give back to the community, to spend time with their children or out of necessity as “no one else stepped up.” Coaches spend hundreds of hours coaching, planning, organizing and thinking about their craft. Whether it is arranging for snacks at a U4 soccer practice or attending multiple certification courses for an U18AAA team, the hours and time spent are immense but well worth it.
As a coach, I am well aware that you all care and love your children immensely. Sports are expensive and you are paying and committing time to allow your child to be the best that they can be while having fun. With that being said, over a season some of you will feel that your coach may not always do what is best for your child and that is your right.
Coaching is incredibly complex with many factors coming into every decision that is made. (Who attends practice, who listens, who is disrespectful to teammates and coaches, skill level, the game situation, providing an opportunity for a child and the team to be successful and so on.)
During the year, we as coaches will make mistakes (managing playing time, the team tryout selection process, navigating player’s emotions and so on) but please note that those decisions are made based on hundreds of factors that often are not observed in just the games that a parent watches. Those decisions are made for what we feel is best for a collective group, not just your child. I ask you to please be respectful of these volunteers over the coming months. Teaching your child to talk to the coach about their concerns rather than berating or confronting a coach with your concerns is probably one of the greatest lessons that sports can teach your child.
More and more coaches are leaving sport and I can attest that it is in no way related to dealing with the athletes. If you cannot be respectful of the coach then I look forward to seeing a clipboard in your hands next season.
“Coach” Chris Zarski,
Camrose